Should a ually promiscuous girl take pride in her abilities to seduce men?

Or should the pride only come with the amount of men from that list who've given her gifts and bought her expensive things?? In other words, is it more of an accomplishment to get men to fall in love and spend their money on a girl, than it is to only have a man fall in love? And then, if the list of hearts broken is equally high, is that another thing to be proud of? Its like proof that she has a lot of good qualities that men desire, and perhaps a good character and personality.